Gideon's Big Day

On September 24th, we made the decision to bring Gideon to the spay/neuter clinic hosted by Denver county to have him altered at exactly 6 months old. Of course, we already knew long in advance that we'd have him neutered, but the clock felt like it was ticking over us constantly. The breeder we got Gideon from, like many breeders, felt that it would be best to wait until he was 8-9 months old before altering him so that he could reach his full size potential before taking away his natural testosterone.

However, many cat experts and veterinarians (ours included) don't feel like this is necessarily the case and more harm can be done in waiting, the most frightening of them for me being that male cats tend to attract stray cats and start having peeing wars to mark territory and make themselves known. Once marking behaviors starts, it's extremely difficult to stop and more likely to come up in the long run once they "get the idea" in their minds. I've read horror stories of male cats starting this behavior as early as 5 months.  I wanted to comply with the breeder and perhaps find a happy medium of times when we could have it done, but around 5.5 months, we found evidence of a pee spot on a dog bed by the door with a rather feline odor.  Now, it's possible a dog could have peed on it and made him think it was suitable, and it wasn't a "spray" type of pee. But just the same, we agreed that 6 months would have to be our happy medium.

The Denver Dumb Friends League offers a free spay/neuter clinic for cats, regardless of income level. For us, this was especially helpful, as I'd rather donate the cost of what the vet was charging ($200) to animal welfare for what is realistically a very simple procedure. Another huge bonus was that it takes place on weekends; to take Gideon to our vet during the hours specified would be quite a juggling act for my husband and I and would likely cause him longer, all-day discomfort rather than just a few hours.

The whole process was an early-morning excursion and not one I'm sure Gideon would like to repeat, but at least it's done. Gideon did well in his recovery, and I fondly got to see that my cat is a happy drunk. We were warned that cats tend to be defensive, frightened, and grumpy when coming out of their anesthetics, but Gideon was a bit of the opposite. He waltzed out of his carrier like he owned the place (which, as a cat, he thinks he does), greeted each of the dogs with a head rub, and seemed to be in a great mood the rest of the day like he was just happy to be out of there.

I am a little sorry we didn't feel that we could wait as long as the breeder wanted, and will feel bad if the act stunts his growth any, but 6 months is a bit longer than most adopted cats get to have and is at least the onset of puberty. He doesn't seem any the wiser in the longrun and, I can say, maintains his perfectly litterbox habits with less cat-calling at doors!

My handsome guy at 6 months

Gideon Does Not Like to be Left

Last week we had to go out of town for a few days for a wedding in NH, which was subsequently the first time both my husband and I left for an extended period since adding Gideon to the family. For what we thought would be for the best, we elected to have a pet sitter come visit our home three times a day to walk our two greyhounds, and also pay a bit of attention to the cat.  To be honest, it was only two full days we were gone, and two half days.

Apparently for Gideon, this was quite a bit. While he did do well enough (we have a nestcam, so could check in on everyone whenever we wanted) and seemed to enjoy getting pets from the sitter, he's been extra clingy and regressive since we've returned, only now starting to get back to his old self!

It's hard to say how much of the problem was him not getting played with in his "per usual" fashion and also him just missing us and our routine.  We do dedicate a few 15 minute play sessions to him every day to give him a predictable outlet for his energy, and when we play, we tend to get him winded and panting. The sitter did try to play with him, but not near the same intensity as what he's used to. When we got back, he's been playing like he's not been played with in years, going totally bananas for toys (the cat chaser mouse toy is his current favorite). This has been nice in a way, as I can get him bounding around, up and down furniture and breathing hard with very little effort on my part. Usually I have to coax him a good bit and try a few different toys to get his motor running.

He's also been a bit mischievous, I think doing anything he can think of to get my attention and not really content to just sit still despite playing hard. He's gone back to doing things like deliberately chewing wires or stealing socks.  However, this has been dwindling since we've been getting back on schedule and is hopefully short-lived to just the first day or two after we return!

It's hard to say what Gideon would prefer; all the experts say having a cat sitter come visit your home daily is ideal (it's also less expensive), but I wonder if we'd be getting the same treatment from him (or perhaps worse) if he'd been boarded? For sake of ease though, I think we'll just keep the status quo for when we go away next month for about the same length of time, armed with wand toys for when we return!

Gideon Explores the Outdoors

I love the way he frolics.

The Cuddly Mellow Yellow

When we chose Gideon, I'd heard about the male orange tabbies, affectionately described as "mellow yellows." I'd hoped he would embody some of this as he grew older, but thought it'd be a while before this trait might show up in him. Recently, I've been pleasantly surprised by Gideon and how calm he's been lately. While he's cute in all his kitten mischievousness, I selfishly hope it's not just a phase!

Gideon and his best friend, Ahri.

I think we've concretely established his sleeping routine and trained him to sleep during the day while we are at work. But in addition to this, lately he's not seemed nearly as rambunctious in the mornings. I used to be sure I woke up an extra 20-30 minutes earlier so I'd have that time to dedicate to playing with him. This is after already being up and going an hour and a half before I need to leave for work to get ready and walk the dogs for 45 minutes; needless to say, this just added to my exhaustion. These days, however, I've found his playfulness to be turned down quite a bit. He'll play and trot after a toy seemingly to appease me, but it's not with the same splendor he once offered (and continues to offer before bed at night). He's content with around 10 minutes now, which has been saving me a lot of time (and sleep!).

Furthermore, when we get home from work he no longer seems to expect a play session at all. He's content to mosey around, and, if you sit or lay down, is on your lap in an instant. This I've especially appreciated after a long hard day at the office when nothing sounds better than crashing and snuggling on the couch with my purr monster.

For the most part, Gideon's need for more intense, directed exercise and outlet for "killing things" has been mostly at night.  Before bed, I still spend 20-30 minutes with wand toys, getting him running around, up and down the cat tree, and all over our upstairs loft. After this, I give him his bed-time meal, and retreat up the stairs to our room; he still doesn't sleep with us at night, because I suspect he's not quite there yet. We've yet to have any complaints though; he enjoys spending his time with his canine companions on the lower level, and on the couch ;).

I'm impressed that his energy level has already dwindled so much.  He's only 5 months old!

Improvements!

Even since the last time I wrote, Gideon has grown up and improved so much already from the minor issues we'd been experiencing a week or two ago.

Meowing has been greatly decreased. As I thought, this tended to reflect his uncertainty and anxiousness, so since becoming more comfortable, has become mostly non-existent! He doesn't even meow at all during the night or in the mornings and patiently waits for me to sleep to my heart's content (on weekends anyway). He is comically always waiting by the door for me to open it in the morning, but has since not made a peep over the last week ^^. He is still shut out of our room at night, but that's because we need sleep and he's not sleeping through the night yet; the scenario has been working well for us though, and everyone seems happy with the arrangement.

Litterbox pains are much improved, thanks to the Modkat litterbox. The liner alone has made the chore much easier to handle and allows me to get the job done quicker. It's an expensive box, but I highly recommend it, and Gideon loves it! Additionally, we just ordered Okocat's long breed clumping litter, and I've started to transition him in the upstairs litter box (since it needed cleaning out anyway). I peeked in the room and it appeared that he may have used it, but I'll be sure to check tonight. Fingers crossed he accepts it, since this stuff is no-track, flushable, and much more environmentally friendly!

And finally, his energy has become much more predictable since he's been given full reign over the house. He still needs to be played with in the mornings and when we get home, and is most crazy around 9pm before bed when we really dedicate time to tiring him, but all in all, he's a much more chill cat where I can reliably tire him and predict his needs, which makes the job that much easier.

Today was noteworthy in that he explored some of the back yard for the first time on his harness! At first, he naturally hated the harnesses as most cats seem to, but upon being placed outside, immediately ignored it in favor of checking out the outdoor world surrounding him. As this is an fairly easy way to provide some mental stimulation, we're off to a great start judging from his enthusiasm!

Finally, the zoo life is starting to give us a little bit of a break ^^.

Ahri and Gideon, BFFs, just as we thought they'd be.